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Memoriam
Remembering
Chris
Chris
Beyond
the Sun
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Sailing
with Chris

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In
May of 1983, Chris and I joined Sonny in Annapolis, Maryland. The three of
us moved onto the sailing sloop Reflection, and she became our home.
That was the start of a two-year adventure that would forever
change each of us.
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When
we started out, Chris was 10 years old. He went to school on board as we
cruised the Inter-Coastal Waterway from the Chesapeake Bay, south to
Melbourne, Florida.
Sonny and I taught him, using a program provided by the Calvert
School of Baltimore, Maryland.
As we made our way south, we visited many of the historic places
that Chris was studying,
including Jamestown, Mount Vernon, Charleston, and a number of
Revolutionary and Civil War battle sites.
We spent a week anchored in the Potomac River at Washington DC, and
made almost daily trips to the Smithsonian.
As a result of our live-aboard odyssey,
Chris gained self-confidence and went from being an average student
to placement in the gifted program upon returning to a “land-based”
school.
Over the years that followed, whenever Chris, Sonny, and I,
discussed the times we spent on Reflection, we agreed that we would not
trade it for anything, and that it was truly the experience of a lifetime. |
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From
the Skipper's Log
For about two
years, Chris lived, attended school, studied, learned, grew, sailed and
traveled aboard the sailing vessel Reflection.
The following are some excerpts from the skipper's log.
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Chris Rice
came aboard Reflection in May of 1983.
He had no sailing experience, and in fact; his first sail was just
a couple of days later on the first of June.
It was a short excursion on the
Chesapeake Bay. Leaving Back Creek in
Annapolis, he seemed to enjoy the sail south several miles to
Rhode
River
before turning back. The log
reflects that Chris took the helm and sailed “by landmarks and the
compass”. It also reflects
that “Chris did not get sick.” Chris
left for the summer the next day and would catch up with Reflection at
Solomon's
Island
in September. |

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Tony, Chris’
brother, arrived in
Annapolis
on the 3rd of July. He
brought a dog with him!! Now
why would a young man ever travel with a puppy?
The answer to that question soon became apparent.
Reflection’s July 6th log has the following entry:
“… There is a dog on board. She
shit in my fowl weather gear yesterday.
Not a good sign.” Well,
that dog Mandy became a great sailor dog, and protector of Reflection and
crew. More importantly, she
also became Chris’ friend. |
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Chris returned
to Reflection at Solomon’s
Island
,
Maryland, and the skipper’s life would never be the same again.
Neither would the world, because here is where Chris learned to
play an old guitar that he found onboard.
On his first day back, he took the new Metzler
for a spin in the harbor…around, around and around.
He seemed to immediately know how to handle the little boat and
claimed the Metzler as his own. We
named the dinghy “Memory.” |

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On September 7
and 8th the crew of Reflection went exploring, with
visits to the Chesapeake Nuclear Power plant and Cove Point Coast Guard
Station. Chris climbed Cove
Point Lighthouse and signed the visitor log at the keeper’s house that
was built in 1829. With that
act Chris’ name will forever be recorded in one more place in
history. He ended each day at
dark driving the dinghy around and around the harbor.
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The log
reflects that on 19 September, “Chris’ school books arrived from the Calvert
School
….” Life was about to
change on board Reflection--classes started just two days later.
Chris helped sail Reflection up the
Potomac River
to
Washington
D.C.
As we passed Mt Vernon, Chris
rang the ship’s bell just as sailors have done since the night George
Washington died. He was
becoming a good sailor and helped set the anchor in the
Washington
Harbor
on October 4th. Chris
and crew would spend the next week exploring Washington. |

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Reflection
left
Washington, with Chris at the helm, headed for
Melbourne
Florida. He rang the ships bell again
as we passed Mt Vernon. We
arrived at the mouth of the
Yocomico
River
in a mild storm. We stopped at
the marina where Kay fell and cracked a rib.
We would spend some time at the Yocomico Marina before heading
south. While there, Kay’s
birthday came. Chris presented her a special birthday card, and arranged
for the marina’s restaurant to make his mom a cake.
It was obvious that they had a special relationship. |
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Reflection
left the marina at Yocomico--destination Langley AFB Marina, where we
planned a stay of about two weeks. The
crew shopped, saw doctors, and got provisions for our trip south.
Chris celebrated Halloween there, by carving a “Garfield
” jack-o-lantern and going trick-or-treating. With our visit at
Langley
complete, sails were set for Norfolk
Harbor, Chris again at the helm. The
trip was almost uneventful except for being passed by a submarine as we
entered the Harbor. The wake
of the passing sub tossed the boat around quite a bit.
Chris described it as “spreader to spreader in the water.”
Somehow Mandy managed not to be thrown overboard even though she
was out on deck and on top of the cabin during the unforeseen maneuver.
Chris called her "spiderdog" for her ability to hang on
with her feet while the boat pitched from side to side.
Later, that night, with Reflection tied up snugly at a dock in the
harbor, the crew was treated to ice cream, and had great fun telling and
retelling the story. |

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The next day we left
Norfolk
Harbor
on the Inter Coastal Waterway, with Coinjock as our destination.
Here, just north of the infamous
Albemarle Sound, we had our first experience taking Reflection through locks.
We wanted to cross the sound in good weather if possible, and waited
for three days before attempting the crossing.
We crossed the
Albemarle
without incident. With beam
seas, a shallow channel, and winds at 25 knots and gusty, it took us ten
hours to traverse the Sound. We
never saw anything like that in Kansas. No one but the skipper got
sick. He never admitted it. |
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We arrived in
Oriental,
North Carolina
in mid-November and spent a few days resting.
According to the radio log, Chris made his first radio call on 18
November while we were leaving Oriental heading south.
The log reflects that he “sounded as though he had been making
calls all his life---A real professional job.”
Chris was very excited about spotting our first dolphin just
outside
Beaufort
N.C.
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Chris was at
the helm for most of the time on the trip from Beaufort to Wrightsville
Beach
. We docked Reflection
at the Sea Path Marina. Our
plan was to wait there for mail. We
spent Thanksgiving week at the Sea Path watching beautiful sunsets and
enjoying each other. Chris
woke up the morning after Thanksgiving, looked around and announced
“I’M SLEEPING IN TODAY” and immediately dropped back into his bunk.
The log recorded a major event.
“Mandy finally used the mat that we put on the stern for her.
I was beginning to think that she would never use it.” |
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Our visit to
Myrtle Beach
is worth mentioning only because there was an island between Hague Marina
and the Inter Costal Waterway. There
was a goat living on the island. That
in itself meant nothing except...... Chris decided the goat must be
hungry, so he took the dinghy, along with a sack of carrots, and went out to
feed it. He must have spent
two or three hours trying to feed that goat a carrot.
When Chris left the island, the goat ate the carrots. |

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It was the
first day of December when the crew stopped in
Georgetown,
South Carolina
for a short rest and shopping. We
found a Christmas tree, trimmings, and ornaments.
Chris and his mom put the tree on Reflection’s dinette.
The next morning we headed south toward
Charleston
with not enough air to sail. The
day brought some excitement: We
came upon a sailboat hard aground so…Chris rowed out to the boat
and fetched a line back to Reflection.
We pulled that boat right off the mud and into deeper water. The log reflects: “Chris to the rescue.” |
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We made it to Melbourne
for Christmas. We spent
another year together traveling on Reflection.
We learned that living on a sailboat can be very hard on a family,
but very rewarding, too. We
survived the excitement and the boredom, and when it all ended, we
still liked each other.
Epilogue
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Chris never lost his love of sailing. He joined Sonny and I whenever he
could for a sail on Mirage, the smaller sloop we bought after we sold
Reflection. |
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On Mother’s Day, 2002, after
visiting with Dee Dee, Chris, Sonny and I went for an evening sail.
As we sailed north out of the
Marina at Patrick AFB and headed up the Banana River, Chris talked again
of how much he enjoyed sailing, telling us that when he became a rock star
he was going to buy a really big sailboat, and leave it here for us to
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It was a lovely evening.
The three of us sailing together, just like
when we began. The weather was perfect, there was a nice breeze, and Chris
was at the helm. It was a wonderful Mother’s Day, and a great sail, but it would be our last…
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